A resource to help you better understand, build, restore and improve the connection between your body, mind and spirit ~Frances L. Dunston, LMT, Reiki Practitioner, CCH
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10 mins. can dramatically make all the difference!
Convenient and affordable chair massage can make for a memorable gathering.
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Wednesday, May 26, 2010
- Migraine Headaches
- Chronic Neck and Back Pain
- Motor-Coordination Impairments
- Central Nervous System Disorders
- Orthopedic Problems
- Scoliosis
- Chronic Fatigue
- Depression
- Stress and Tension-Related Problems
- Fibromyalgia and other Connective-Tissue Disorders
- Temporomandibular Joint Syndrome (TMJ)
- Neurovascular or Immune Disorders
- Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
- Post-Surgical Dysfunction
My Referral Source:
Elizabeth Poole, Craino Sacral Practitioner
Located in Ditmas Park, Brooklyn
acupressur@aol.com
(718) 707-1009
- Reduction in edemas (swelling) and lymphedemas of various origins
- Regeneration of tissue, including burns and cuts
- Relief of numerous chronic and subacute inflammations, including sinusitis, bronchitis and otitis
- Relief of chronic pain
- Reduction in the symptoms of chronic fatigue syndrome and fibromyalgia
- Some forms of constipation caused by hypertonic muscles
- Deep relaxation to aid insomnia, stress, loss of vitality and loss of memory
- Alleviation of cellulite
- Reduction of wrinkles
Still curious? Below are some FAQS about LDT, click on the questions to read more.
1. How does the therapist do the technique?
2. That all sounds interesting…but what the heck is the lymph system?
3. How come it’s ok for the body to send viruses and bacteria to the lymph nodes?
4. So what does the lymph system have to do with swelling in the body?
5. Why does the lymph system get backed-up?
6. How can LDT help?
7. Can you help me with lymphedema?
In LDT, practitioners have been trained how to detect the specific rhythm, direction, depth and quality of the lymph flow anywhere in the body. From there they can use their hands directly on the skin of the client to assess overall circulation and determine the best alternate pathways for draining body-fluid stagnations. They then work with flat hands, using all the fingers to simulate gentle, specific wave-like movements. These subtle manual maneuvers activate lymph and interstitial fluid circulation as well as stimulate the functioning of the immune and parasympathetic nervous systems. This specific technique was developed by the French osteopathic doctor Bruno Chikly.
So this is kind of a long and complicated story, but I’ll do my best to describe it simply.
Actually most of what we know as the immune system cells resides in the lymph nodes. As the waste passes up the vessels into the nodes, the immune cells scan the markers on everything that passes by them to see if there are foreign agents present before the fluid gets returned to the heart. It’s like a firing squad looking through your recycling before it gets put on the truck back up to the heart. When there is a potential threat, a battalion of immune cells are created to deal with the invader. That’s why you get swollen lymph nodes when you get sick, the nodes swell because of the production of new cells that will go out into the body to look for more of the virus or bacteria in the body.
When something goes wrong in the lymph system, fluid builds up in the affected limb or area, and that can lead to a lot of trouble (think sanitation crew going on strike and the piles of trash that backs up).
While not all causes for a swelling or lymphedema are known, some of the common causes are inflammation, damage to the vessels or by the removal of lymph nodes (a standard procedure in a lot of cancer treatments). Back to FAQS on LDT
A well-trained therapist can help re-route fluids that are building up so that the area can drain properly. For many people with mild to moderate swelling, this can give them great relief from swelling post-surgery, injury, or even after an allergic reaction.
I am trained to perform LDT only on mild cases of lymphedema (in the very beginning stages known as zero to first degree). Anything beyond mild cases, bandages will be necessary and I am not trained in bandaging. Back to FAQS on LDT

- Removes toxins
- Accelerates lymph drainage
- Increases range of motion of muscles and joints
- Calms the nervous system
- Increases the flow and rate of blood circulation
- Provides relaxation, decongestion and detoxification of your organs
Sunday, May 09, 2010
According to statistical averages, a stroke, traumatic brain injury, or spinal cord injury will radically change the lives of 116 Americans this hour. Injuries to the central nervous system (CNS) can be devastating to the injured person and his or her loved ones and caregivers. The brain and spinal cord, so carefully protected by the three layers of meninges and the bony shells of the cranium and spinal canal, are extraordinarily vulnerable to damage if those protective layers are breeched by a blood clot, a gunshot wound, a motor vehicle accident, or other trauma.
This article will address the consequences of the most common kinds of CNS injuries, along with some new paradigms that are shaping the future of treatment strategies and the long-term prognoses for these events. Because some of these shifts involve muscle reflexes and proprioceptors, this puts the recovery process at least partly within the scope of practice for massage therapists, so we will also look at how bodyworkers can apply their skills in this context.
Traumatic Brain Injury
Traumatic brain injury (TBI) is an insult to the brain that is not brought about by congenital or degenerative conditions. This damage can lead to altered states of consciousness, cognitive impairment, and disruption of physical, emotional, and motor function. TBI is usually due to external force. Falls, gunshot wounds, motor vehicle accidents, physical violence, and sports are leading causes. About 1.5 million TBIs are reported every year, and 270,000 are classified as moderate to severe injuries, the rest are considered to be mild (although even mild injuries carry some significant risks).1
Most TBI patients are people between 15 and 25, or over 75 years old. Younger patients are injured in motor vehicle accidents, sports injuries, and personal violence, older patients are injured most often in falls.
Spinal Cord Injury
Spinal cord injury (SCI) is defined by damage to nerve tissue in the spinal canal. How that damage is reflected in the body depends on where and how much of the tissue has been affected.
Traumatic spinal cord injuries fall into one of five categories:
Concussions, in which tissue is jarred and irritated but not structurally damaged.
Contusions, in which bleeding in the spinal cord damages tissue.
Compression, in which a damaged disc, a bone spur, or a tumor puts mechanical pressure on the cord.
Laceration, in which the spinal cord is partially cut, as with a gunshot wound.
Transection, in which the spinal cord is completely severed.
Motor vehicle accidents cause about 50 percent of all spinal cord injuries. Falls are responsible for 24 percent, gunshot wounds and other acts of violence cause 11 percent, and sports-related injuries account for 9 percent. About 11,000 Americans experience an SCI each year, and about 250,000 people in the United States are SCI survivors. Male patients outnumber females by more than 4 to 1.
Statistics on other forms of spinal cord injury are not kept, but some estimates suggest that more people have been disabled by non-traumatic damage to the spinal cord (from arthritis, bone spurs, tumors, or other causes) than from accidents and injuries.
Stroke
Stroke or cerebrovascular accident (CVA) is the result of neuron damage related to ischemia or lack of blood supply. This can happen in one of two ways: 1) an ischemic stroke: a blood vessel becomes blocked with plaque, a clot, or other debris that develops on-site or travels from elsewhere, 2) a hemorrhagic stroke: a blood vessel ruptures and bleeds.
Stroke is the most common type of central nervous system disorder, the third leading cause of death in the United States, and the leading cause of adult disability. About 700,000 people have a stroke each year in this country. Of them, 500,000 are first attacks, and 200,000 are repeat strokes. About 160,000 people die of stroke annually. Close to 5 million stroke survivors are alive in this country today.
No matter what type of CNS injury occurs, internal edema, bleeding, and tissue damage may take several weeks to resolve. Most recovery of function appears to happen during this time. This is also when any residual motor impairment becomes apparent: damage to lower motor neurons reflects as flaccid paralysis, while damage to upper motor neurons shows as spastic paralysis--that is, flexors and extensors become progressively tighter, and ultimately the flexors win and the extensors let go.
The Traditional CNS Injury Paradigm
Understanding of the structure and function of the CNS has always suggested that the environment inside the brain and spinal cord is not conducive to healing and replacement of damaged cells, and that any damage or injury here is permanent and irreversible: the best anyone could hope for would be to prevent the damage from getting worse. Generations of observation show that in individuals with a CNS injury, the affected area of the body becomes progressively weaker and more disabled.
This observation led to a treatment strategy for CNS injuries that focuses on adaptation: teaching the person how to accomplish daily tasks with his or her strongest limbs, providing assistive devices to compensate for loss of strength and function, and changing the living environment as much as possible to keep challenges within a realistic spectrum for the patient's new limitations.
This approach allows many people to live independently after CNS injuries, but it has created an unexpected phenomenon: "learned non-use." In other words, the injured person, who has lost some nerve supply to his or her legs, or to one side of the body, essentially gives up on that area ever being able to function again. The proprioceptors relay information that their limitation is great and getting greater. The weakened limb(s) degenerate continually, taking the form of deconditioning, loss of muscle mass, and irreversible contractures. While some function loss is plainly inevitable, it seems clear that some is a self-fulfilling prophecy: the body senses a limitation and accepts that limitation as a done deal, thus, the limitation increases and progresses.
A New CNS Injury Paradigm
Beginning in the 1930s, neurobiologists and neurochemists made some unexpected discoveries about the CNS: damaged neurons in the brain and spinal cord are far more adaptable to external influences than previously thought. This recuperative capacity has been termed neuroplasticity.
It turns out that even a mature brain can grow new neurons or establish new connections between neurons where none had been seen previously. This raises exciting questions about how this capacity might be maximized or promoted in the context of tissue damage. Two main theories have developed around these findings: one is that intact cells may sprout collateral axonal endings (think of a plant growing new roots) to reach out to other neurons, the other is that previously unused or latent pathways between uninjured neurons could be recruited to provide function to damaged areas.
Another astonishing discovery found that the stepping reflex could be elicited in mammals with transected spinal cords. Proprioceptive sensations about weight-bearing, degree of flexion, or extension at hips, knees, and ankles, and rate of movement appear to stimulate a motor response to the degree that an injured animal--or human--could walk on a treadmill, as long as the circumstances are conducive.
New Treatment Strategies, New Prognoses
These and other surprising findings about CNS resilience have altered the strategies behind CNS injury treatments and substantially brightened the long-term outlook for survivors of these major events.
Traditionally, a survivor of a CNS injury has waited out the period when the nervous system resolves inflammation (approximately three months) to see what kind of function is left in order to make appropriate accommodations. These strategies do not incorporate the nervous system's adaptability, and an argument could be made that these interventions "enable disability" by discounting the potential for motor improvement.
Newer treatment plans focus more on recovery than adaptation. They take advantage of the self-regulating mechanisms that promote initial healing during the acute phase of injury by minimizing edema and oxidative stress (neuron damage related to free radical activity that occurs with injury). The chemical environment inside an injured CNS has profound influence on neuroplasticity. Some chemicals, especially gamma-aminobutyric acid (GABA), that are released during trauma actually damage neurons when present in high levels. Others appear to promote healing and create an environment where those intact axons can grow new endings or previously disused neural pathways can be recruited to provide function. Reducing the availability of harmful chemicals while increasing helpful ones during this phase has important influence on recovery potential.
Locomotor Training
When the acute phase subsides, new strategies address CNS injury by asking this key question: how much loss is real, and how much is related to "learned non-use"? For spinal cord injuries, this can be tested by utilizing the stepping reflex with a weight-bearing harness and treadmill. Aides can help create proprioceptive stimulus by exaggerating hip, knee, and ankle movements, but ultimately the injured person may be able to move on his or her own, even free of the treadmill. This is process is called locomotor training, and it holds great promise for SCI patients.
Constraint-Induced Movement Therapy
Stroke and TBI patients can translate neuroplasticity into improved function in a different way: the patient's strong side is immobilized so that everything the patient does must be done with the weakened limb. This intense work, called constraint-induced movement therapy (CIMT) can yield stunning results: long-term function is consistently better than for patients who undergo traditional therapy that focuses on strategies to use the strong limb side of the body. These improvements can be seen even if CIMT is applied years after the stroke or TBI.
What Does This Mean For Massage?
If at least part of a CNS injury patient's problem is related to proprioceptive information and learned non-use, then we can work with the rehabilitation team to promote a more accurate feedback loop about muscle strength and power. We can create bodywork sessions that soothe, calm, and promote improved function through proprioceptive facilitation.
Injuries that affect upper limb function may decrease a patient's ability to grasp or pinch. What if this patient's massage therapist did work to improve hand function? This could mean the difference between being able to drive or not, being able to use a computer or not, even being able to live independently or not.
Injuries that affect lower limb function obviously compromise the ability to walk. That ability can be restored in specialized circumstances, the boundaries of which are only now being explored and challenged. Again, if more accurate proprioceptive messages about muscle tone and the stretch reflex in leg muscles can be conveyed through bodywork, this could have influence on a patient's long-term prognosis.
CNS injuries carry a long list of cautions for massage practitioners. Numbness interferes with important sensory information about the risk of injury. Stroke patients may have other cardiovascular conditions, or a risk of another stroke. Spastic muscle fibers are vulnerable to injury. The threat of blood clots and deep vein thrombosis remains high for people who are not mobile. Urinary tract and kidney infections are a hazard for anyone using a urinary catheter, lung infections are a constant threat for people who can't cough well. Hyperreflexia is a situation where a minor stimulus creates a dangerously exaggerated sympathetic response. These risks can be mitigated with education, curiosity, adaptability of bodywork sessions, and good communication with the rest of the patient's care providers.
The impact that massage therapy may have on CNS injury and prognosis is an open question. New revelations about how adaptable an injured CNS truly is create a wide array of possibilities in which massage therapists may participate.
Ruth Werner is a writer and educator who teaches several courses at the Myotherapy College of Utah and is approved by the NCTMB as a provider of continuing education. She wrote A Massage Therapist's Guide to Pathology (Lippincott Williams & Wilkins, 2009), now in its fourth edition, which is used in massage schools worldwide. Werner is available at www.ruthwerner.com or wernerworkshops@ruthwerner.com.
NOTE
1. These numbers do not include military personnel injured in the wars in Iraq and Afghanistan. This population adds an estimated 320,000 to the total number of TBI survivors over the past five years.
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Sunday, May 02, 2010
ABOUT ME
Background:
Studies Began at New York College of Health Professions and completed at Helma Institute of Massage Therapy. Saddle Brook, N.J. Obtaining diploma in Professional and Clinical Massage Therapy.
Licensed in N.Y. State.
Fran has been servicing families of Brooklyn and the surrounding boughs for over 5 years with quality therapeutic massage. Her touch is therapeutic by all accounts. Her specialty is orthopedic massage which is different from Swedish technique that are more commonly known. While the Swedish style is noted for it's long gliding strokes and kneading of muscle tissue; orthopedic massage serves to help treat deep muscular dysfunctions such as whip lash, carpal tunnel syndrome, lower back strain, neck and shoulder pain, sciatic pain. It also serves to bring relief to those suffering from arthritis, symptoms that stems from Muscular Dystrophy, anxiety, and insomnia.
Fran is a true believer of client self care. She takes time to interview the client before and after sessions to help the individual better understand how many mechanical dysfunctions can be minimized. Each person receives individualized attention to bring about results.
Continuing Education include studies in:
Manual Lymphatic Drainage
Cold and Hot Stone Therapies
Facial Rejuvenation Therapy
Aromatherapy
Modalities/Therapies:
Classic Swedish
Neuromuscular Therapy
Sports Massage
Prenatal Massage
Shiatsu
Chair Massage
Hot Stone Massage
Reflexology/Feet and Hands
Hydrotherapy
Short list of Current and Past Experience:
Fusion Therapy Spa & Wellness Services (Private Practice)
Midwood Wellness ( Private Practice)
Mesh Spa, Hoboken N. J.
Parkview Nursing Home - Hospice Volunteer
Monte Fiore Hospital- Reality Office Staff
Barnard College
Unity Theological Seminary
Brooklyn Free Clinic
Lucky Magazine
Northeast Brooklyn Housing Development Corp.
Bridge Street Housing Development
Midwood Martial Arts
Over 6 years serving the community and counting!
Profiles: Frances L. Dunston, LMT
email: fusiontherapywellness@gmail.com
online services: www.myappointment.genbook.com
Thursday, April 29, 2010
exceptional. Fran Dunston was really great. I am so impressed by what she
could accomplish in 10 minutes. Thank you so much--just what I needed to take
on this week." - Colleen M.
Thursday, April 15, 2010

Elderly massage offers numerous benefits to our senior citizens which can greatly help to improve their health and well being. This article looks at what is elderly massage, why it is valuable to society, and the benefits of massage for elderly citizens.
A natural trend when we age is to become less active and this reduction in physical activity contributes to the reduction of the quality of life experienced by many of our senior citizens. Many studies have shown that elderly massage therapy can be of significant benefit in managing the effects of aging such as arthritis and a host of other physical ailments.
The NCBTMB (National Certification Board for Therapeutic Massage and Bodywork) has promoted the use of elderly massage for years. Although there is a general awareness of massage for elderly citizens, there is a poor understanding of its direct benefits.
There are also more pragmatic motives as a society. Health care expenditure is predominantly made up of caring for our elderly, so any therapy that reduces the negative effects of aging on our health is also beneficial to our society as a whole. This is true in a financial sense, but also because society would benefit from having a healthier and thus happier and more productive older population.
- According to the Touch Research Institute, elderly massage is very useful in the treatment of Alzheimer's patients. It has shown to facilitate relaxation and communication.
- It can greatly assist in arthritic pain management.
- Massage for elderly citizens helps to increase their range of motion.
- Also promotes natural joint lubrication, which is extremely important for arthritis sufferers.
- Helps to increase strength and muscle coordination.
- Boosts natural energy levels and mental awareness.
- Can also greatly improve posture by reducing muscle tension. This has the added benefit of assisting seniors with a higher quality of rest, and helps them to sleep deeper and longer which can have a significant effect on their general health and well being.
- Can also have a profound calming effect which in turn helps them to deal with medical interventions they may need to experience in dealing with various conditions.
Massage for elderly citizens is a natural solution to many ailments associated with the aging process, and has proven to be an effective complimentary therapy to assist and improve the efficacy of conventional treatments.
Tuesday, November 10, 2009
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Tuesday, August 25, 2009

As of August 31, Fusion Therapy Spa & Wellness will be taking it's view from a different venue. I will be moving my practice back to it's roots; back to my residence at De Koven Court. Just a small shifting of your foot print. Still a wonderful walk through the tree lined neighborhood you've grown to love.
It was an unexpected turn of events for all of us this summer who shared space at East 19th street location. I am grateful to have met new friends there and gotten to know others even better.
You can still find me going strong through the grapevine or my site. See you in September.
Cheers!
- Fran
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Near By Places of Interest:
SALUD
Pomme De Terre
Di Fara Pizza
John's Bakery
De Koven Suites
Coney Island Amusement Park
Kris Waldherr's Studio Gallery
Flatbush Food Coop
Natural Frontier
Midwood Martial Arts
Sacred Vibes Healing- Herbal Consultation and Education
Rugby Gardens
Thursday, August 20, 2009
Date: June 25, 2010
Studio & Gallery
1501 Newkirk Avenue
Brooklyn, NY 11226
( At Newkirk Ave and Malbourgh Road)
studio and gallery telephone:
347-406-5811
Come for the art, find out about various publishing workshops, children's art workshops get a GREAT MASSAGE!!!
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Kris Waldherr’s studio-gallery: upcoming events and workshops | the blog of author, illustrator and designer Kris Waldherr
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
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The Queen of My Self by Donna Henes
Donna Henes is an award winning author, spiritual teacher and speaker in multi-cultural ritual celebrations for more than thirty-three years. Read more about her and her work at DonnaHenes.net
Thursday, March 19, 2009
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Wednesday, March 04, 2009
Alternative Treatments for Fibromyalgia
WebMD Feature
Now, researchers are honing in on how these various home remedies and alternative treatments work.
"In all these therapies, we're stimulating pressure points... we think there may be a similar underlying mechanism in how they work," says Tiffany Field, PhD, director of the Touch Research Institute at the University of Miami School of Medicine.
Pressure applied to the right spot triggers all sorts of changes in the body -- in a good way, she explains. The pressure points have nerve connections to major nerves in the body that affects physiological processes.”
This reduces flow of stress hormones and pain-inducing chemicals -- and ramps up production of mood-related brain chemicals such as serotonin, she says. The result: The body slows down, you feel calmer, sleep is more restful -- and you are able to tolerate the pain of fibromyalgia better.
Massage and Fibromyalgia Treatment
For the past three decades, Field has conducted more than 80 studies looking at massage's effects on various conditions. Her research team looks deeply at the underlying physiological processes involved in sleep -- especially as it relates to fibromyalgiapain.Researchers tracked patients' sleep patterns, also measuring "substance P," a brain chemical that is central to fibromyalgia pain. People with fibromyalgia pain have higher levels of substance P in the spinal fluid. They also have lower than normal levels of mood-boosting serotonin.
When they get a massage, all that changes. Field's studies have shown less substance P in patients' saliva -- and they report less pain. They also have fewer painful tender points.
The studies typically involve 20-minute massages -- which is only practical if a significant other is trained to do it, she says. One bonus for the family masseuse: People who give massages have lower stress hormone levels, too.
To get the most benefit, it's important to apply moderate pressure. "It doesn't matter whether you're rubbing, kneading, or stroking -- it's the pressure that makes the difference," Field says. "You have to move the skin, actually see finger indentations in the skin. It doesn't hurt, but it's more than light stroking. We've found that light stroking doesn't help."
Massage also helps relieve depression, Field adds. "Depression is related to low serotonin, low dopamine, and increased cortisol. We can jazz that up with massage. There are a lot of positive benefits from massage."
Moist Heat, Cold Packs, and Fibromyalgia Treatment
Warm baths, ice packs, and pressure are the tried-and-true home remedies for many ailments. You burn yourself -- you immediately apply ice or hold it under cold water. Your joints hurt, you want moist heat. You hit your elbow, you're inclined to grab it.There's a scientific reason why we instinctively do these things. "Temperature and pressure are very, very similar in pain control," Field says.
They reduce inflammation and pain by stopping the pain signal, she explains. "It's called the 'gate theory of neurons.' Temperature neurons and pressure neurons seem to be longer and more insulated than pain neurons. The more insulated the neuron is, the faster the message is going to travel."
Apply cold water, moist heat, or pressure -- and it closes the gate to the next signal, which is the pain signal. "Temperature and pressure neurons travel faster than pain neurons," says Field. "They're protective."
Tender points
Illustration locating the 18 tender points associated with fibromyalgia
The 18 tender points associated with fibromyalgia occur in symmetrical pairs from the back of your head to your inner knees.m:
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Friday, February 27, 2009

Raising a family of five children, running a household, at first working part and then full time it; was very easy to get lost in the everyday grind. Along the 15 plus years of churning away at the non stop demands of innumerable responsibilities, I found myself experiencing a number of aliments that had no detectable medical root cause. Headaches, generalized body aches, fainting spell, lack of focus.
After one visit with my then wise old doctor reviewing all my negative test results, he began questioning me about "my life's existence" as I will put it . "How many children do you have are there any unusual stresses at home?" "Five children." I responded "and no there is nothing I would say unusual about home other than the normal activities that went along with raising a family." "How about your marriage. Is everything alright there?" he asked. " Everything is fine, no complains there." Then he asked me the next question and needless to say I was shocked at my own response. " What kind of work do you do? How's your job?" From out of no where I let out a sob of tears that was almost uncontrollable.
" Well" he proclaimed " there is your answer. Your suffering from acute stress." We talked a little bit and his words to me were this " Well, it sounds like your going to have to find another way to deal with the job or find another job." And with that he wrote me two prescriptions for basically tranquilizers. I could not believe what I was hearing. Me, I thought I had everything under control. I was the one everyone came to to fix something, stay a little longer, organize. Ah but that was part of the problem. It was not so much so the work, but who I worked with that was truly draining me. I did not realize how much, I was just holding on to many resentments and how purely exhausted I was. Fran was that person who kept my thoughts and feeling bottled up inside me, never expressing them. Just keeping her head to the grind stone and working through it all hoping tomorrow would bring a better result.
The body has a very unique way of letting you know when it's had enough. This can be expressed in many ways. Body pain such as head aches, neck and shoulder discomforts, sleeplessness, anxiety, gastronomic problems even weight gain or lose, hormonal issues just to name a few. Did you know that stress is one of the precursors of many diseases including heart disease, uterine fibroids. For suffers of fibromyalgia, stress can actual aggravate the condition.
Well, I changed some things in my life back then, but still had not made the leap into the life altering change that would have me truly questioning my existence on this earth. Sometime had pasted when that day finally arrived. It was one Saturday morning in Feb. 2004, when I made my bed, sat square in the middle of it and attempted to drown out all the head chatter that plagued my everyday existence and listen for the sound of SILENCE.
It was during that time I slowly began to find myself again. I wrote down what I discovered and took small steps to challenge myself along to accomplish even the smallest thing. All the while, God faithfully watching, sent his angles into my life to guide and direct me. They had been there all along. My mother, "Find you passion!", my husband " What do you want to do? Just go for it. I'm here." and so many more. When I really went deeper, I found that massage had been calling me from the age of 15 when I first purchased a book on my own about massage. I had never been around it, or had known anyone who had experienced it, but there is was every once in a while calling to me; but I did not answer until four years ago.
Life is a journey, we sometimes get caught up on the cross roads, and that's ok. The trick is to recognize that you have the power within you to change your destiny. With a little help from above and lot's of love and support all around me, I have been able to follow my spirit to the path that had been meant for me. My journey is far from over, there is much more to learn, the important thing is that I began the course. As my wonderful mother always says, "Everything in Divine Order."
If you have a similar tale. Will you share it with us? It may help someone else find their calling in this journey we call life.
Take time to honor who you are. Know that you are enough, learn to like who you are and let the road unwind from there.
Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Rejuvenating Face Lift Massage
Experience the fabulous effects of a face lift without going under major cosmetic surgery. The Rejuvenating Face Lift Massage utilizes cold marble stones and heated stones to stimulate facial energy points to effect a temporary facelift. The treatment improves the sluggish skin of smokers and those with a poor diet. Lymph drainage is performed, and a gentle enzyme to exfoliate the skin and a honey mask follow. The cold stones increase circulation and reduce inflammation. The technique helps to lift and firm tired muscles, reduces dark circles and puffiness from under the eyes, and helps clear mild rosacea and mild acne.
Sunday, October 05, 2008
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